Moana, She Is Troubled

Okay - I'm only about 45 minutes in to The Bachelor - and I wonder: why does Moana seem to feel like love is a weakness? Why does she think it's "intense" for someone to ask her what she sees in a man who she has this "unbelievable connection" with? I don't understand. I mean, Travis' sister said, "What is so special about my brother?" And Moana said, "It's not in my character to answer something like that."

HUH? I'M SORRY?

DANGER, Doctor. DANGER.